Dust Bunnies and Declarations: How my Marriage Ended

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These posts by “Tania” are done anonymously by a new Coaching client who generously offered to share her story.  Her divorce was very high conflict and in the aftermath Tania was diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Tania’s story is an example of what can happen when we don’t set boundaries with others and ourselves. [...]

Setting Limits and Boundaries With a Passive Aggressive Husband

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Though it is difficult to be partners with a man who constantly frustrates you with his passive aggressive behavior, there are things you can do to break through his lack of involvement. When you begin to understand the problem and use a little straight talk, a passive aggressive man’s behavior can change. It does depend on [...]

Infidelity And It’s Relationship To Domestic Abuse

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In many instances, betrayal through infidelity can be very close to what we term domestic violence. Unfaithful husbands, especially if your husband has passive aggressive tendencies, are often insensitive to the pain they inflict, just as are perpetrators of physical and psychological violence. Often a wife is as vulnerable and dependent as the victim of [...]

Why Do Men Cheat?

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If you’ve ever been the victim of infidelity the one thing you’ve wondered is “why” did he cheat? You will ask yourself that question dozens of times and may even think learning why the affair happened will keep it from happening again or relieve the pain you feel. The truth is, knowing “why” won’t keep [...]

How Do You Define “Sexless Marriage?”

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How do you define a sexless marriage? Some experts call marriages that average 10 or less “intimate couplings” a year “sexless.”  I recently read that an estimated 18% of marriages become passionless and making love less than 10 times per year can be the norm in some.  Are those marriages amongst those who have been [...]